Blog Challenge #4

Day | 04 Your current relationship.

I am currently living a single life but to be more specific I am in the state of moving forward. I had my heart broken nine months ago and I today I will tell you what I did to move forward and the good things about it.

A friend of mine once said to me that the cure for anything is saltwater: tears, sweat or sea. She advised me to do this three things for she assure that I will get better. So, I did these three things. First, I cried almost every night, though I didn't tell my brothers or parents about it. Every broken relationship is painful. You just need to learn to stand because if you let it overflow you, then you lose. According to Augustus, one of the main character in John Green's book, "that's the thing about pain. It demands to be felt". Sometimes you have to let yourself wallow in despair because it is the only way for us to learn, for us to grow and for us to continue living. 

Then I enrolled in a boxing class,  I literally box the anger and disappointment out. It feels so good every time I punched, although I had a hard time keeping up but I enjoyed every sweat that drops from my body. I was thankful that my friends just supported me, they also joined the class. 

Lastly, to complete the list I traveled different beaches. Traveling had always been my escape from stress or sadness. The best thing about it I didn't have anyone to ask permission too, there's no one who'll get mad at me every time I go out, I don't need to give updates about my trip and I can absolutely savor every moment without any guilt.

Now, I wouldn't say that I have totally move on but I feel better compared to the past few months. Still there are some moments that he crossed my mind but and I am glad that I no longer have any hatred against him. I had forgiven him and myself for trusting and loving him. I hope that he is happy right now.

In conclusion, the bright side of being single are you are independent, you can spend more time with your friends and family. Though I am not saying that you can't do it when you are in a relationship but there are times that most of your attention is on your partner. The moments that I feel sad about being single it's during special holidays like valentines day, when I'm walking alone, eating alone or watching movies alone. Hahaha. Sometimes, I miss having a romantic relationship but I've learned my lesson, I should take things slowly for true love is to wait patiently (hastag hugot!) I don't want to say that to wait for the right or perfect person, what I've learned from my relationships you should be the make yourself the right person. What I am happy about is that I did not have any regrets on it because I know I did my best and I loved him truly. 

So, for now whether your status is Single or in a Relationship I advise that you savor every moment of it, don't forget to love yourself and most importantly, be Happy.